Relationships4 min read
How to support a friend who is struggling
You don't need the perfect words. You need to show up.
By MindMate Team · September 13, 2026
When someone you care about is hurting, it's natural to feel unsure what to do.
Listen more than you speak
Ask open questions: "What's been the hardest part?" Then let silence do its work.
Avoid fixing
Most people want to feel understood before they want advice.
Know when to escalate
If your friend mentions not wanting to be here, take it seriously. In the US, call or text 988. You can stay with them while they reach out.